Crabs, reindeers and sofa-squash
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We went with Grammie and Grampy to the Petworth Christmas Fair on Saturday. Whilst it was snowing(!) in the morning, by the time we got to Petworth the clouds had cleared and the sun was beaming. What had failed to dissipate was the howling wind – it was bitter out-of-doors.

Most of the Petworth House Christmas Fair was in the usual massive marquees; this year in a different place on the estate with a little “street” of smaller stalls outside of the main area – glad we weren’t in one of the stalls selling bits, as they were all flapping; it looked quite uncomfortable.

After a mooch about we had some overtly expensive lunch, watched the jazz band that consisted entirely of instrument playing Father Christmas'(!), then Grammie and Mummy went back in, whilst Grampy, Bea and Daddy strolled down to the Petworth House lake to have a look at the dog statue. It was bitterly cold and Bea was shivering, whilst Grampy and Daddy had to shout to communicate. Once the lake and dog-view was complete we strolled past loads of mushrooms on the lawn, upto the main house, and performed some jumping off of the steps of the house onto the grass. Big fun.

On the way back Bea was getting a little too cold; eventually remembering I had gloves in my pocket so pushed them on her and she started walking sideways as she thought she looked like a crab!!

Here she is smiling as ever and saying, “snip snip”…

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Whilst at the Christmas Fair we spotted some wooden reindeer ornaments that were made from conifer logs – they were about two foot long and probably stood two foot high (that’s 60cm to you youngsters :-)). Being disgusted by the price and remembering we have a stash of our own conifer logs, got to thinking about making one on Sunday. So Sunday morning came and logs were needed for the fire, so Bea and I took loads of tools into the woods and using a chainsaw, an axe, a lock knife, a pruning saw and an electric drill we styled together to make our own reindeer. Unfortunately we broke the “antler” (this was once a branch on the tree), so rather than snap it off we fixed him by using some “vet wrap” we keep in the doggie-first-aid box. Fixing a red-Rudolph nose and some googly eyes made him complete:

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So once we had man handled most of the logs into the log basket, putting the over spill in the wood store next to the front door, we lit the fire and snuggled up on the sofa with Charlie whilst watching some animated movie about reindeers!

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Cycling. Sorted.
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It was the last weekend in September that Bea “sussed” cycling on her first attempt without stabilisers; was interested if she could do it again, and hopefully with less crashing.

On Saturday we went back to the same car park and concentrated on her starting off without any assistance. Noticed that she was more confident – not overly so – and was able to “save” several crashes. Unfortunately she did eventually crash, and tears flowed once more. I convinced her that the “saves” were really important and showed her she was getting better and was learning really well!

We did upload a video from this Saturday session, but knowing it ended with a rather nasty crash have decided not to share it.

What was lovely about Saturday is I took my bike and we were riding around together – our first bike ride, even if it was a little broken up.

On Sunday the weather remained amazing (11th Oct) so found another car park on an industrial estate that had no traffic. Also it was paved rather than tarmac. Potentially offering a slightly more uneven surface. Found a little “sub” car park that had kerbs all round giving Bea a little boundary, which we eventually played with… more on that shortly.

We had been trying to have Bea push off by putting the leading pedal in the “go position”. On Saturday I had explained to her that a bicycle could ride itself if you could trick it into speeding along. I was wondering if she could paddle herself along, gather some speed and then put her feet on the pedals. Never worked on Saturday, but made a sideways comment about that on Sunday and she rather impressively took to it on her own with almost zero extra coaching. You can see a couple of videos below of her using this technique.

Sunday’s session was impressive for a few reasons:

  1. Only ONE crash – she looked down to ring the bell!
  2. Rings the bell merrily whilst racing around giggling!
  3. Starts entirely on her own with no outside assistance.
  4. Accurate pavement riding (eventually!)
  5. Did her first trick!!

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The pavement riding was interesting because she asked to ride up on there and I explained she would have to be really accurate to avoid some metal bicycle racks on one side, a lamppost on the other and the kerb drop-off – that’s before we get to the bend and the slope back down into the car park.

She of course managed this easily. She then wanted to do this in reverse. I explained the only way to do that was ride really fast up the slope onto the pavement, carefully around the bend and then do a “trick” by riding off of the pavement. Dutifully and with no drama she did it. And did it again. And again. Had to catch her a couple of times as she turned into the corner too early – on the second go she asked why that was happening – I explained it was because she had ridden up the slope too slowly so was a little wobbly. She soon fixed that!

Anyway, summary is I cannot believe she is barely 3yrs and 8months old and has such confidence on a bicycle. She needs to improve her stopping ability, and of course accuracy, but these are things that will come. She is realising the importance of both on her own, so I think we will increase the complexity (she’s not really done hills – up or down – both bring challenges of their own), and we will eventually go out for a proper bike ride!

Here she is demonstrating her confidence:

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Here she nearly crashes into me (you can see the pavement and bicycle racks in the background):

Properly in control here of both the start and the stop:

 

Face paint and cycling mitts
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Further to yesterday’s note about Bea learning to pedal around on only two wheels, we thought we’d share a couple more pictures.

One from the weekend, that whilst it has been edited slightly it remains a wonderful picture – the face painter at the local village fair was rather special. Bea decided she wanted to be a tiger several minutes before we even knew where the face painter was!

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After all her cycling exploits we were both super impressed at her tenacity; we only realised the extent when you look at the number of knocks, scrapes and bruises she has from bouncing off the tarmac car park.

Also as a reward for trying so hard, and maybe, just maybe help reduce the injuries going forward, we bought her some proper cycling mitts and gave them to her just before bed time tonight.

Here we see her sporting them ably assisted by her big brother (yes, they are pink – in fact they are pink camo!):

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Bea nails two wheeled cycling!
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Today our daughter is 3 years, 7 months and 2 weeks old.
Today is also the day our daughter learnt how to cycle on two wheels and two wheels only.

Bea has more than mastered the art of cycling with stabilisers.
She had reached the point that little out-riggers were getting in her way, to the point that she asked for them to be removed so she could go faster!!

With recent adventures on a little PW50 motorbike (with me on the back) Bea asked if she could learn to ride a motorbike.
I explained to her how she once could only crawl, had learned to walk, then learned to run, then learned to ride her balance bike (no pedals), then learned how to pedal on her little pink Ridgeback “Minny” with stabilisers.
She now wanted to ride her bicycle without the stabilisers, so I promised if she could learn to ride without, she could learn to ride the little motorbike.

We don’t have much hard standing, so knew we needed to go to the car park outside her nursery.
This place isn’t alien to us as both Charlie and Ollie went “sans-stabilisers” here too – although Charlie was more than a decade ago!

We explained to Bea how she would have to try really hard, and that she was going to fall off a lot, but as long as she kept getting back up again she would learn how to ride without those (dreaded!) stabilisers…!

So I took her to the car park, having already taken the stabilisers off at home; taking some tools in case we needed to put them back on (even temporarily for confidence building).

In event nothing was needed.
I learned between Charlie and Ollie’s training that holding onto the bike prevented the kid from feeling the bike wobble, which in turn meant they couldn’t learn to overcome or correct it.
So all I was doing for Bea was holding onto the scruff of her neck. If she fell I could save her from a heavy fall, but fall she still would.

Harsh? Not a bit of it. On her third go I realised that today was the day she was going to succeed – no doubt in my mind.
Was I being pushy? Absolutely not! She wanted this and was apparently very ready (probably a number of weeks ago too).

You can see three videos below – the first is THE first time I let go of her. At 45seconds into the clip she asked if she could stop, so I let go of her; she didn’t even register.

The second video has a wobble in it that she recovers really nicely from, and is so full of beans I asked her a question about her riding – she is so enthusiastic it’s gorgeous.

The third video is all her. I am barely touching her at the start, and stand stationary so am forced to let go the moment she has momentum. You see her go round and round and round and then brake and come to a stop without any tumble or drama. Properly impressive.

That’s all very well – I’ve shared the very best bits – what this hides are the tumbles, pain and tears.
One big tumble was as a result of her trying to look behind to see if I was still holding onto her (I wasn’t) – the act caused a whole body swerve and a heavy fall.
She had a number of other crashes – some I could catch and some I wasn’t quite close enough to.
One almost-crash occurred as she rode towards the village hall; amazingly she realised her error and calmly pulled the brakes and stopped. I was going so fast to catch her, I almost trampled her – such was the surprise that she controlled the bike effortlessly to a standstill.

Her helmet peak took a number of whacks, so did both knees and both palms. One crash saw her chin get a whack.
I sat cuddling a crying child almost as much as I jogged after a speeding giggling child!

We were in excess of two hours doing lap upon lap.
When we finally got back home, Bea took her stabilisers into Mummy and stated quite clearly that they were for the bin as she no longer needed them!!!

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Sunday fun
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The big boys had left for another holiday, so Bea had Mummy and Daddy’s full attention all weekend! Firstly we sat and had our hair brushed really nicely and popped on a yummy pink onesie.IMAG0881

Then we went to the new dinosaur island park and had a few ace laughs. Including her scrambling up this long cargo net tube. We followed this with a chocolate ice cream which she annihilated. All in all a cracking day.

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Technical issues BUT back with you!!
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So shimmying back to last Tuesday…..

Musical Friends have recently changed their days so we can go AGAIN….and rather happy was Bea about it….

  
    
  
And last Thursday was the long awaited Sports Day! Bea has been SO excited about her Nursery’s S.D and despite not being 100% last week she was a total CHAMP and errr WON her races!!!!

It was even a race to the Start….

RUUUUUNING!!!!!!

  

Nothing like the incentive of “an Ollie” at the finish!!!


On the way home Bea requested (let’s call it what it was….a demand!) we make “a race track on the grass with a crash pad at the end and a flag at the start”!? So Mummy rustled up said “request” whilst cooking dinner…..kindling for the track, a folded up “crash pad” picnic blanket and a bamboo stick for the starter flag….it appeared to meet her standards….!

  

Note Ollie in the background required to cheer her on…..!!!

Fathers Day!
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Today was Daddy’s Day! We began (typical!!) with an early start from her Ladyship…..6:15am!? She really is on the whole a 7am kinda gal! Anywayz I managed to suppress her excitement of delivering Daddy his card (until 6:50am) which she’d put under her bed the night before. So card given, very special Brighton Gin received, cuppa in bed and a bit of bedtime piece for Daddy while Mummy and Bea did morning jobs!

On to the next venture….Breakfast…..unbeknownst to Daddy Mummy has spent many months trying to find a reputable “greasy spoon” – Mummy’s like a civilised brunch and Daddy’s let’s face it like a damn good fry up!! After MUCH research I landed at Boo Boos Cafe in Burges Hill! And it certainly lived up to its reviews! Their “Boo Boos GUT Buster” won me over in the end and predictably Daddy and Charlie went for this option….2 x bacon, 2 x sausage, 2 x eggs, 2 x hash brown, beans, black putting, mushrooms, tomatoes, toast AND a burger!? How they ate it I’m not sure but they did! Ollie had a very respectable “Boo Boos 2” – double of everything! Bea had a huge sausage sarnie and Mummy had a very scrummy round of poached eggs on toast! Lovely nosh, brilliant service and a sunny morning!

 
  
A quick visit to Grampie at work to deliver a Danish and wish him a Happy Fathers Day!…..Daddy got some F.D Beer too!

  
Home for some Tortillia chip making – last night Daddy made an extremely nice Malaysian Curry with garlic and onion seed Tortillas wraps and today they made the leftovers into chips!!

  
A spot of very excitable car washing….

  
Ready for the eating….in her knicks having got soaked washing Mummy’s car!

  
Happy Girl, Happy Daddy! Fathers Day complete! 

Thursday Birthday Day for the Big one!
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Thursday was Charlie’s 15th birthday. I genuinely think Bea was more excited about this than Charlie BUT in fairness he was utterly shattered and had endured his GCSE Stats. exam that day! Normal day in essence but we polished it off with mucho presents and a trip to Wagagmamas…..noodle tastic!!!! (Bea is “smiling”!?)

  
Little Miss proficient with the chop sticks and dipping technique…..

  
Daddy’s been working damn hard of late and as a result Bea’s not seen much of him during the week, Thursday was a mega bonus night for them….gutted its blurred BUT you get the gist….

  
She was absolutely hanging by 9:45pm but cracked on with the ice cream…..

  
Bea is the luckiest little girl in the world to have this man (and he is the most wonderful young man) as her biggest brother. Proud doesn’t come close…..and Bea does well to let him know how loved his is, I think she said Happy Birthday at least 60 times to him and sang him Happy Birthday throughout the day EVEN when he wasn’t there!!!!

  

Village fair
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Local village had annual fair. The weather was threatening drizzle or even rain. Mummy was out so Daddy and Bea wandered off.

Saw a few chums and had some catch ups whilst Bea had a go on TWO bouncy castles (one with a slide!), then we found the sheeps milk ice cream and finally a little face painting.

Spotted a little miniature railway (electric!), so we had a quick go at that; nice and slow so we could capture a selfie.

Once the fair was done it was a few mad laps of the playground – climbing higher than I’ve ever seen her climb before – and then a perfectly timed dash home as the rain set in!

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